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Weaponized Incompetence: How Narcissists Use It To Manipulate Co-Parenting

Co-parenting after divorce should focus on the children’s well-being. Cooperation often breaks down when one co-parent manipulates the other. It can be challenging for many families to understand how narcissists weaponize incompetence to control co-parenting, as these behaviors often appear subtle but have a significant emotional impact. This tactic involves one co-parent shifting the burden […]

The “Flying Monkeys” Phenomenon: How Narcissists Use Others to Undermine You

Divorcing a narcissist, or even mentioning the possibility to one, can be awful. They may use their favorite techniques to intimidate and disempower you so they can maintain control of the situation. The “flying monkey” phenomenon explains how narcissists use others to undermine you. Our attorneys at Atlanta Divorce Law Group can coach and support […]

The “Hoovering” Tactic: When a Narcissist Tries To Pull You Back In

Narcissists need to dominate and be in control. A divorce can challenge their sense of dominance, whether you initiated the split or they did. Hoovering is a tactic that narcissists use to regain dominance by trying to suck you back into their control. If you are currently divorcing or were recently divorced from a narcissist, […]

Preparing for Court: Presenting Evidence Against a Narcissistic Spouse

When you are divorcing a narcissist, you are likely to end up in court. Although pre-trial settlements are almost always advantageous for both parties, narcissists have a strong need to win. They want the family court judge to tell everyone that they are right and you are wrong. That attitude is often their downfall. If […]

The Financial Games Narcissists Play During Divorce (and How To Protect Yourself)

During divorce, narcissists often employ manipulative tactics to exert control and cause distress. Their tactics may include financial manipulation aimed at maintaining power and inflicting emotional harm. This can involve hiding assets, creating financial double standards, refusing to engage in negotiations, and dragging out the divorce process to hold onto their control. A skilled divorce […]

Why “No Contact” May Be the Best Strategy for Divorcing a Narcissist

Divorcing a narcissist can be a highly complicated and emotionally taxing experience that is often much harder than the standard divorce process. Narcissists may engage in manipulative behaviors, prolonged legal battles, and even emotional or physical abuse, especially when they face a loss of control in the relationship. Our team understands these complications can lead […]

The Silent Treatment: How Narcissists Use It as a Weapon in Divorce and Co-Parenting

The silent treatment. It’s a common tactic that a narcissist can deploy as a weapon against their spouse and children. Going through a divorce is complicated and emotionally taxing enough without dealing with such manipulative games and unrelenting power moves. We’ll discuss how narcissists use the silent treatment in a divorce and when co-parenting so […]

Parallel Parenting: An Alternative to Co-Parenting With a Narcissist

Living with a narcissist is difficult, divorcing one is challenging, and co-parenting with a narcissist may prove to be impossible. Fortunately, there is an alternative. Parallel parenting allows both parents to spend meaningful time with their children while reducing the need for interaction with one another. Our team can help you develop a parallel parenting […]

Dealing with Smear Campaigns During and After Divorce

One of a narcissist’s tactics when they feel pressured or exposed is to badmouth others. When a narcissist is getting a divorce, the spouse may be the target of lies and unflattering comments directed toward their friends, family members, and even the couple’s children. A skilled family law attorney experienced in high-conflict divorce can help […]

How Narcissists Manipulate Custody Evaluations

According to Psychology Today, a person with narcissistic tendencies may have an inflated sense of self-importance or lack empathy. These personality traits could make it difficult to get them to agree to an arrangement that does not appease their need for attention and admiration. Learn more about how narcissists manipulate custody evaluations and how that […]

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